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Swinger Etiquette FAQ

What are the key rules of swinging?

Answer: The most important rules are consent, respect, discretion, communication, and hygiene. Always ask before engaging, respect boundaries, and maintain good personal hygiene.

What does "No means No" mean in the lifestyle?

Answer: It means that if someone declines an offer or advances, you must immediately respect their decision without pressuring or asking repeatedly.

How should I approach someone I’m interested in?

Answer: Be polite, introduce yourself, and engage in conversation first. Avoid aggressive flirting or assuming someone is interested just because they are at an event or on the platform.

Can I touch someone without asking?

Answer: Absolutely not. Always ask before touching anyone. Consent is required for any physical interaction.

What is soft swap vs. full swap?

Answer:
- Soft swap means engaging in activities like kissing or oral sex but not full intercourse.
- Full swap involves intercourse between partners.
- Every couple has different boundaries, so discuss this beforehand.

Should I communicate with my partner before and during an experience?

Answer: Yes! Open and honest communication is crucial. Set expectations beforehand, use safe words if needed, and check in with each other throughout.

What happens if I change my mind during an encounter?
- Answer: You have the right to stop at any time. Saying “no” or using an agreed-upon safe word is enough to halt any activity. Everyone should respect that decision immediately.

Is it okay to watch others?

Answer: Only if they are comfortable with it. Some couples enjoy being watched, while others do not. People playing in open rooms generally enjoy being watched or are inviting people to join them but always ask first.

What if I see someone I know at an event?

Answer: Respect their privacy. Do not bring up the encounter outside of the event or disclose their participation to others.

Can I take pictures or videos at a party?

Answer: No. Photography and videography are strictly prohibited at our parties to protect privacy. SIZZLE parties have designated areas where phones can be used, please ask when you arrive.

What are the hygiene expectations?

Answer: Good personal hygiene is essential. Shower beforehand, maintain fresh breath, trim nails, and use deodorant. Bring essentials like breath mints, wipes, and condoms.

Are condoms required?

Answer: Safe sex is highly encouraged. We PROMOTE condom use. however we do understand that people have prefrences and ultimately it is upto the consenting parties to decide the level of condom use (oral with or without for example.

Can I engage with someone’s partner without their permission?

Answer: No. If a couple is playing together, you need permission from both individuals before engaging in any activity.

What is the difference between a "unicorn" and a "bull"?

Answer:
- A unicorn is a single woman interested in playing with couples.
- A bull is a single man who engages with couples.
- Both should be respected and not treated as objects.

Is it rude to decline an invitation?

Answer: Not at all. It’s okay to say no, and no explanation is needed. Likewise, don’t take it personally if someone declines your invitation.

What should I do if I feel uncomfortable at an event?

Answer: It is best to step back and remove yourself from the situation.You can leave at any time. If something makes you uneasy, speak to the event host,

Answer: No, unless explicitly allowed. SIZZLE Parties require guests to be on the guest list.

How can I be a respectful guest at a SIZZLE party?

What should I do if I have an issue with another guest?

Answer: Address concerns with the event host. Avoid confrontations and let organizers handle disputes.

What if I’m not interested in anyone at an event?

Answer: That’s okay! You’re never obligated to engage. Many people attend just for the social aspect. Be friendly, but don’t feel pressured to participate.

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